Time

Time is flying around these parts. Where did October go? It’s been happening, I suppose, while my family moves in some virus-filled, sleep deprived fog. It’s been happening as I work through piles of laundry that don’t ever get any smaller. It’s been happening while I grocery shop and run errands at odd times. Attend teacher workshops on the weekend. Travel to see family. It’s been happening.

And in a way, it’s good. Because the last weekend of October? Is Fall Break. Three glorious weekdays, attached to a weekend. And our biggest plans for the weekend?

To Trick or Treat as much as possible.

What’s been happening with you and yours??? (My Google Reader is now as 1000+, I’m thinking it’s best to just start over…)

An Escape Plan: recap and giveaway

**This Giveaway Is Now Closed*** I went ahead and flipped a coin–Steph was heads, Cathy, tails…….and Cathy won. Congrats!

Hmm…turns out that I haven’t posted since I told you I was going to a night of Protective Thinking, sponsored by An Escape Plan. I didn’t actually escape, but instead I learned a LOT of self-defense with fellow bloggers and probably one hundred others at Conseco Fieldhouse.

The focus of the night was the ProActive techniques developed by Jeff Patterson, co-owner of An Escape Plan. He introduced to me the idea that when faced with an eminent attack, the best thing to do iseĀ  make the first move. The element of surprise is a good weapon. Even by saying,”Hello! How’s it going?” you could easily throw a potential attacker enough off guard that he changes his mind. If the threat remains, we were shown three proactive moves that should get us away from an attacker and able to run/call for help.

In addition to this, Jeff shared a lot of insight into how to stay safe and what your body does when presented with a dangerous situation. A few snippets I took away from the evening include:

1) You can’t depend on fine motor skills in an attack situation. Dialing the phone, putting a key in a lock, pressing the nozzle on a can of mace are all fine motor skills.

2) Strike first. It is perfectly legal to protect yourself from what you feel is a dangerous situation. Be prepared to hurt your attacker, and be OK with that-if you don’t get him, he will get you.

3) Men know better. If you are in an empty parking garage, men know not to pull into the spot next to you. They know in a deserted situation not to crowd you. They know. So if someone is following too closely, if your space feels invaded–there’s a reason, and it probably isn’t a friendly one.

The ProActive techniques are also shared on An Escape Plan’s new DVD, the complete “Protective Thinking” series. I was given an DVD to review, and I found it extremely informative. The other two parts to the DVD are “ReActive” and “Ground Survival”. Those two sections answered the question,”What if I don’t get to make the first move?”

Having experienced the ProActive portion of the program, I can’t tell you how helpful it was to practice those techniques that evening. We did each move several times, and by the end of the night, I felt like I really had it down. In watching the rest of the program on the DVD, I would recommend pausing the DVD after each technique and practicing, preferably with a partner. I can see this being a good way to spend an evening with a youth group, moms group, or any other kind of social group interested in personal safety. I know I will be sharing it with my children when they are older.

Does this sound like something you’d like to learn more about? The DVD is available for purchase on the website An Escape Plan.

What? You read the word Giveaway in the title? Well then it’s your lucky day! One reader will receive the DVD “Protective Thinking” just by leaving a comment.

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**Disclosure: I was invited to this free event, and given a DVD to keep, and one to give away in exchange for posting on this event.** (just in case you were wondering)

Ready to Make my Escape…

My Escape Plan, that is (truthfully, a real escape, like to a small, quiet, warm island would be nice, but not in the cards). I am talking an “Escape Plan” as in, what-to-do-when-confronted-with-a-violent-situation. It’s something I don’t want to think about, but one I sometimes do when I’m walking on the street out and about with the kids by myself. It’s something I thought about the last time I went downtown to meet friends–and thankfully, my friend Becky was thinking the same thing. We ended up parking next to each other–paying an extra dollar to be directly across the street to where we were going. Worth it? Totally.

An Escape Plan is hosting a FREE night of public safety training at Conseco Fieldhouse in downtown Indy on Wednesday night from 6-8pm. That’s right, it’s FREE. I am looking forward to learning more about how to keep my family safe, how to keep myself safe, and how not to be blindsided by something or someone because I am distracted (gabbing children? ringing cell phone?where’s the sippy cup? when did that dude start following us?!?). Protective thinking is something that sometimes takes a backseat to getting the kids from point A to point B, but it shouldn’t.

So, if you are local, I hope you are able to make it. If you are not, check out their website--www.anescapeplan.info they offer trainings, DVDs and good tips anyone can use to be safe.

**If you are able to attend Wednesday night, bring an old cellphone if you’ve got one (or two)–they are collecting them for the Verizon Hopeline Program!**