Signs you live amongst old folks


In our neighborhood, there are less than 15 kids–probably less than 10 that live in the neighborhood full time. I see three get on the middle school bus each day, I live with 1, and there are two little ones across the street. So the Babe doesn’t have many examples of what “kids do” in a neighborhood.

Instead, she watches the adults walk their dogs (no fences, so they’re all leash trained) and the dog-less adults just walk. And walk. And walk. That sort of purposeful fitness walking marked by the MP3 player, sports bra, reflective clothing and the bent arms. I think only one or two people jog. The rest of us, myself included, walk. So when she points to the men walking by and says, “Dada!” I say, “That man’s walking.” And she’ll repeat, “walking”. When she points to the dog walkers, I’ll say the dog’s going on a walk. And she’ll say, “walking”.

So now, when the Babe wants to go outside, she says, “Walking? Go walking? Go walking baby?”–which roughly translates into, “I’d like to get out my stroller and put my doll in it and barrel down the sidewalk.” !!!!

It occurred to me today that she doesn’t use the word “Play”, like I think kids generally do–her word for going outside is “Walking.”

Definitely a sign we live amongst old folks.

36 hours of silence…..

on my cell phone. BgKahuna has gone to a Church retreat. (sorry, for those of you who know him, I should have warned you before you snorted your beverage through your nose while reading that!) It’s one of those where you surrender your whole self–including watch and cellphone, pager, crackberry…whatever you are usually tied to in your everyday life. So BgK left, with most electronica at the house, and just a few gadgets with him to get him down to Church. He signed off at about 8:25am this morning. Know what? I miss the chatter.

We text each other alot during the day–I didn’t realize how much until today, when I realized anything I typed wouldn’t be seen til tomorrow. While I shake my head in frustration when I get the “multimedia message box full” warning every other day–turns out, I like the crazy photos he sends me……

Today’s been a day of reflection for me too

I’m a winner!!

Ok, so my mom’s always told me so, but really, I’m a winner! In a giveaway contest! What a fun surprise! And really, the important things is that “for Heather” was an incredible example of how a blogging community can come together and help someone. Such love, such love.