Normally, I’d say yeah, right..

But in my sleep deprived state, I am more sympathetic than usual. And having forgotten where I was going more than once, I get it.

This morning, MAM is still sound asleep, so I’m indulging in the Today Show. They just finished a segment on hot cars and how dangerous it is to leave your kids in the car…and how to prevent it. The obvious thing would be to, you know, take your kids out of the car. But sometimes that doesn’t happen, and tragedy strikes. How can a mom forget her child? As someone who’s done the crazy out the door-to the daycare-to work on time- do I have everything dance for awhile now, I can almost see it. Especially with a sleeping child or one who doesn’t talk.

So how do you fool-proof yourself to keep your child safe? There were two excellent ideas–one was to put something in the car seat whenever your child isn’t in the car, and then when you put your child in, keep the object in the front seat as a visual reminder. The other idea is to put your purse in the backseat, so that before you get out of the car, you’re going to get into the backseat for your purse, and see your child. I also have to say that MAM’s daycare almost always calls me if I don’t call them if she’s absent, which I think is a fabulous double-safety check.

Just something to think about……

It takes a village…

It’s cliche, but true–it absolutely takes a village to help keep things together when baby #2 comes along. What has my village done for me? Let me count the ways….besides the usual visits and baby gifts, our friends have, in no particular order:

brought dinner to our door every night this week, always with something for MAM to eat too, brought huge tubs of infant boy clothing and accessories, delivered a crib and a dresser, delivered a pack and play along with sheets when I couldn’t find mine, brought fun big sister gifts for MAM, pushed A in the stroller when MAM freaked and insisted on being pushed in a stroller too…. I could go on and on. I have absolutely learned to always bring a sibling gift when there’s a new baby. It makes all the difference in the world, it really does.

We are truly, truly blessed!